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When Did Being Forgiving Turn Into Letting People Walk All Over Me?

I have always considered being forgiving one of my better qualities. I don’t like holding grudges. I don’t enjoy staying angry with people. Even when someone hurts me, there is usually a part of me that tries to understand why they did what they did. Maybe they were having a bad day. Maybe they ... READ the POST

I’ve been asking myself a hard question lately: Am I really just a forgiving person, or have I become too easy to take advantage of? There’s a difference between choosing peace and being afraid of conflict. I’m learning that I can forgive someone, love them, pray for them and still say, “You don’t get to keep treating me like that.”

Protecting Your Peace Without Becoming Cold

There comes a point in life when you realize that having a good heart does not mean you have to keep giving everyone unlimited access to it. For a long time, I thought protecting my peace meant simply staying away from drama, avoiding arguments, and trying not to let other people's behavior bother ... READ the POST

Standing Up for Myself Makes Me Feel Like the Bad Person

I have always believed in trying to do the right thing. I want to treat people fairly, be considerate of other people’s feelings, and make decisions I can live with afterward. That sounds simple enough until doing what you believe is right conflicts with what somebody else wants you to do. That’s ... READ the POST

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