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What If I’m Not Unhappy, I’m Just Bored With My Life?

There are times when absolutely nothing is wrong with my life, and yet something still feels a little off. That can be difficult to admit because we usually assume dissatisfaction must have a reason. If I am unhappy, surely there must be something wrong. Maybe I don’t like my job. Maybe there is a ... READ the POST

Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Nothing is really wrong, so why do I feel so restless?” Maybe you don’t need to change your entire life. Maybe you’ve just been doing the same things for so long that you forgot you’re allowed to try something new. Sometimes we aren’t unhappy, we’re simply bored.

When Did Being Forgiving Turn Into Letting People Walk All Over Me?

I have always considered being forgiving one of my better qualities. I don’t like holding grudges. I don’t enjoy staying angry with people. Even when someone hurts me, there is usually a part of me that tries to understand why they did what they did. Maybe they were having a bad day. Maybe they ... READ the POST

I’ve been asking myself a hard question lately: Am I really just a forgiving person, or have I become too easy to take advantage of? There’s a difference between choosing peace and being afraid of conflict. I’m learning that I can forgive someone, love them, pray for them and still say, “You don’t get to keep treating me like that.”

Sometimes You Have to Let People Be Wrong About You

One of the hardest things I have had to learn is that I cannot correct every person’s opinion of me. I used to think that if someone misunderstood something I said or did, I needed to explain myself until they understood my intentions. If I heard that someone had formed an opinion of me based on ... READ the POST

Sometimes you have to accept that not everyone will understand your choices, intentions, or side of the story. You can explain yourself, tell the truth, and still be misunderstood. I’m learning that peace sometimes means letting people be wrong about me.

Standing Up for Myself Makes Me Feel Like the Bad Person

I have always believed in trying to do the right thing. I want to treat people fairly, be considerate of other people’s feelings, and make decisions I can live with afterward. That sounds simple enough until doing what you believe is right conflicts with what somebody else wants you to do. That’s ... READ the POST

I’m Tired of Being One of God’s Strongest Soldiers

I have heard the saying many times throughout my life: “God gives His strongest soldiers His toughest battles.” For years, I received those words as encouragement. I understood the message behind them. They were meant to remind me that God sees my strength, that He knows what I can handle, and that ... READ the POST

What People Don’t See When You’re Living With a Chronic Illness

Living with a chronic illness is like carrying a backpack that nobody else can see. Some days, the weight is almost unbearable, yet to the outside world, you appear fine. You smile. You participate. You make it through the day without complaint. But inside, every movement, every decision, every step ... READ the POST

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