Starting over sounds nice when people talk about it. It gets framed as something hopeful, almost exciting. A fresh start. A new chapter. A clean slate. But when you’re actually living it, starting over can feel heavy. It can feel like you’re standing in the same place again, trying to rebuild ... READ the POST
When God Uses Solitude to Heal Your Heart

Solitude can feel uncomfortable, especially when what you truly desire is connection. When friendships become distant, relationships end, or life suddenly grows quiet, it is easy to interpret that silence as rejection. Many women assume that if life feels lonely, then something must be wrong. They ... READ the POST
You’re Overthinking It: How to Trust God When Your Mind Won’t Slow Down

I used to think overthinking was just part of who I was. It felt normal to replay conversations in my head, to second guess decisions, and to imagine every possible outcome before anything even happened. My mind would take one small situation and stretch it into something much bigger than it needed ... READ the POST
You Don’t Have to Have Everything Figured Out Yet

Society constantly reminds us that we need to have life figured out. From careers to finances, relationships to personal growth, there’s an implicit timeline we’re all expected to follow. Social media amplifies this pressure, showing “perfect” lives that mask struggles, doubts, and detours. I ... READ the POST
Black History Month Isn’t Just a Celebration

February arrives every year with the same familiar energy: tributes, quotes, school projects, social media posts. Black History Month often feels like a highlight reel with the best speeches, the bravest marches, the most inspiring quotes. But Black history is not just the polished moments we ... READ the POST
What’s Up with All the Hatred?

At 45 years old, I’ve lived long enough to recognize a pattern. Hate isn’t new. What is new is how bold it has become (again), and how tired it makes your soul. Hatred is EXHAUSTING! I don't see how people do it... choose to carry hate or anger in their hearts. Choose to be divisive. ... READ the POST
