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Saturday Mornings Just Don’t Feel the Same Anymore

There was something special about Saturday mornings when I was growing up. I don’t remember anybody announcing that Saturday was special or explaining why I should appreciate it. It just was. You woke up knowing there was no school, no alarm clock forcing you out of bed, and no rush to get dressed and out the door. The whole day seemed to stretch out in front of you, and somehow it felt much longer than Saturdays do now.

One of the best parts was Saturday morning television. You couldn’t watch whatever you wanted whenever you wanted. There was no streaming service waiting with thousands of choices, and there certainly wasn’t a phone sitting next to you providing unlimited entertainment. If you wanted to watch cartoons, Saturday morning was your time. You got up, turned on the television, and watched whatever the networks had decided children needed to see that morning.

There was something fun about the fact that everybody was watching at roughly the same time. You could go to school on Monday and talk about something that happened on television because there was a good chance your friends had seen it too. Entertainment felt more communal because we weren’t all watching completely different things according to our own personalized schedules.

The commercials were part of the experience too. Looking back, it is almost unbelievable how effectively companies marketed cereal and toys directly to children. Every cereal looked like it was going to completely transform breakfast. Every toy appeared to be the greatest invention in human history. Of course, the toy never worked quite as dramatically at home as it did in the commercial. Somehow the dolls had better hair, the cars moved faster, and everything looked much more exciting when professional lighting and enthusiastic children were involved.

Breakfast didn’t need to be impressive either. Nobody was arranging berries on top of a beautifully prepared meal so it could be photographed. A bowl of cereal in front of the television could qualify as an excellent Saturday morning. If you were lucky enough to have the cereal with the toy inside the box, there was an entirely separate competition involving who could get to it first. I’m sure our parents loved watching us dig through perfectly good cereal in search of a tiny piece of plastic.

Eventually, somebody told you to turn off the television and go outside. That was when the second part of Saturday began.

Going outside wasn’t usually an organized event. Nobody needed to create a group chat and coordinate schedules. You went outside, found out who else was outside, and figured it out from there. Bikes appeared. Somebody had a ball. Somebody came up with a game whose rules seemed to change depending on who was winning. The neighborhood itself became the entertainment.

We also seemed to have much more freedom to be bored. If nobody was available and there was nothing on television, you had to figure out what to do. You might draw, read, play with toys, listen to music, ride your bike, or simply wander around the house annoying your parents until they found a chore for you. That possibility alone was usually enough motivation to find something else to do.

There were no notifications following us around. Nobody could reach us every minute of the day. If you left the house, you were simply gone until you came back. Parents had a general idea of where children were, but there wasn’t necessarily a device showing their exact location. You might hear someone yell your name from a porch or receive instructions to be home when the streetlights came on. Somehow, that system functioned.

I don’t want to pretend childhood was perfect. It wasn’t. Children had problems then just like children have problems now, and every generation tends to romanticize the period when they were young. There are plenty of things about modern childhood that are better, safer, and more convenient. Technology gives children access to information, education, creativity, and opportunities we couldn’t have imagined.

Still, I think something changed when entertainment became available every second of every day.

Anticipation used to be part of the fun. If you liked a television show, you had to wait until it came on. If you missed it, you missed it. There wasn’t always a way to immediately watch it later. Movies took time to move from theaters to home video and eventually television. Songs weren’t instantly available whenever you wanted to hear them. Sometimes you sat next to the radio waiting for your favorite song to come on.

Waiting made things feel different.

Today, almost everything is available immediately. If I suddenly remember a television show from years ago, there is a good chance I can find an episode somewhere within minutes. If a song pops into my head, I can play it before I finish remembering the lyrics. If I want a movie, I can search several streaming services without leaving the couch.

That convenience is incredible, and I have no intention of giving it up. I am not about to throw away my smartphone and start waiting beside a radio with a blank cassette tape. I appreciate being able to access things when I want them.

But convenience doesn’t always create excitement.

Sometimes anticipation was the excitement.

Maybe that is part of why Saturdays felt different. The week had a rhythm. Monday through Friday meant school. Saturday meant freedom. Sunday had its own feeling too, especially if you grew up going to church. The days weren’t as interchangeable as they can sometimes feel in adulthood.

Adult Saturdays have a completely different personality. Saturday is often the day we try to accomplish everything we couldn’t get done during the week. There is grocery shopping, laundry, cleaning, errands, appointments, yard work, and whatever else has been patiently waiting since Monday. By the time you finish everything, half the weekend is gone.

There are Saturdays when I catch myself wondering how a day that once seemed to last forever can now disappear before I have accomplished half of what I planned.

Part of that is simply getting older. Time feels different when you are responsible for filling it yourself. Children wake up wondering what they get to do. Adults often wake up thinking about what they need to do.

Maybe that is something worth changing occasionally.

Not every Saturday needs to become a productivity marathon. Sometimes the laundry can wait a few hours. Maybe we need mornings when we eat something we enjoy, watch something ridiculous, stay in pajamas longer than necessary, and refuse to feel guilty about it.

There is something healthy about having time that isn’t optimized.

I think about the biblical concept of Sabbath sometimes when I consider how difficult adults have become at simply stopping. God created a rhythm of work and rest, yet many of us treat rest as something we earn only after every responsibility has been completed. The problem is that responsibilities are never completely finished. There will always be something else to clean, answer, organize, buy, repair, or prepare.

Maybe those childhood Saturdays accidentally taught us something we forgot.

A day doesn’t have to accomplish anything important to be a good day.

Sometimes the best memories come from days when nothing particularly significant happened. We watched cartoons. We ate cereal. We rode bikes. We laughed with friends. We came home when somebody called us.

At the time, none of it seemed worth remembering.

Now those ordinary Saturdays can feel strangely precious.

I don’t think I actually want to return to childhood. I enjoy being an adult, making my own choices, and not having anyone tell me I can’t have dessert because I didn’t finish my vegetables. There are definite advantages to adulthood.

But every once in a while, I would like Saturday morning to feel like Saturday morning again.

Maybe that means leaving my phone alone for a while. Maybe it means watching an old movie, eating something completely irresponsible for breakfast, going somewhere just because it sounds fun, or allowing part of the day to have absolutely no purpose.

We can’t make time move as slowly as it seemed to when we were children. We can’t completely recreate the world we grew up in either.

But maybe we can borrow something from it.

We can remember that rest doesn’t always need to be productive, entertainment doesn’t always need to be optimized, and a good day doesn’t necessarily need an itinerary.

Sometimes it just needs to be Saturday.


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Remember when Saturday mornings actually felt special? Cartoons, a bowl of cereal, riding bikes, playing outside, and having nowhere important to be. Somewhere along the way, Saturdays turned into errands, laundry, grocery shopping, and catching up on everything we didn’t finish during the week. Maybe we need to bring a little of that childhood Saturday feeling back.

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